You Could Be The "Perfect Couple"

THE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL AND LOVING RELATIONSHIP


No relationship is automatically doomed to fail, and no "perfect couple" is happy by accident. If your relationship is struggling, there is something you can do about it: Know your power archetype. Discover the unconscious patterns, stories, and hidden influences at play in your relationship!

  •   Are you tired of power struggles in your relationship?
  •   Not sure if you and your partner are on the same page?
  •   Are all of your needs being met?
  •   Are all of your relationship requirements being met?
  •   Are you just not sure what isn't working in your relationship?
  •   Are you fed up that you don't spend time with your partner?
  •   Do you want to understand the dynamics in your relationship and why you have  ongoing differences with your partner?

You can have a healthy, balanced relationship!


Awareness

Discover your, and your partner's, dominant power archetypes and how they interact; your relationship patterns and how you compete for power.

Choices

When you are aware of your patterns, you are in a position to make choices; to end or continue the competition for power in your relationship. You can have a healthy relationship!

Tools

Use simple but highly effective tools to develop your sense of power and mutual respect instead of sabotaging your relationship and competing with your partner for power.

Below are the most important articles for couples I've published to help you find the right tools, and develop awareness so you can be the, "perfect couple."

“A perfect couple is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other."

When the "honeymoon" period is over and the chemistry in your relationship has subsided, daily living can become mundane and boring. Your relationship can take a "backseat" and you may feel that you're constantly working, parenting (if you care for children), and doing chores. It's at this point relationships face difficulties and many marriages and partnerships end in separation. 


Don't be another statistic. Prioritize your relationship and create the emotional intimacy, and connection you desire and deserve, so you can have a happy relationship and be the "perfect couple." Many couples struggle to find time to connect. Some couples say they find relationships hard work and end up prioritizing time on social media rather than committing to a "date night" with their partner or playing games together. Do not devalue the importance of time spent together; it brings you closer together. To keep that spark alive, yes, you have to work at your relationship so you enjoy time together.


If you want to get the connection, love, and intimacy back into your relationship (and maintain it), continue reading.


If you're tired of the same results, it's time to try something new.


I can support you to identify unhelpful beliefs and stories at play in your relationship so you can take off your masks, stop playing out old patterns, and start to relate from your true selves. You can have a fulfilling relationship and be a happy couple.


In relationships, we tend to play out unconscious patterns we developed early in life. We tell ourselves stories about ourselves and others, and as a result, our relationships tend to lack depth and honesty, and they can't go the distance.

42%
First

42% of first marriages in the US end in divorce.

60%
Second

60% of second marriages in the US end in divorce.

73%
Third

73% of third marriages in the US end in divorce.

Do you wonder why some people seem to have loving, fulfilling relationships and you don't?

Some couples seem able to just work out their differences, but how?


We all have patterns of behavior that we adopt and move into, particularly when we are in a relationship, and I'm no different.


When we feel powerless and disconnected, we move into these patterns (because it's a habit and familiar) to compete with our partner to gain power. We all do it, but some more than others. And sometimes, we will use our patterns more than others, depending on how we feel.

Quick Tip

The more disconnected, fearful, and powerless you feel in your self and your relationship, the more you use your power pattern!

Know that the patterns you use to compete for power with your partner were created when you were a child and probably haven't evolved since then. What worked for you as a five-year-old to gain power and ensure your survival is still operating and being used by you in your adult and intimate relationship (yes, your partner is using their patterns too).


I've discovered that when people get past their negative view of the word "archetype" as being a theoretical construct (wishy-washy/new-age/hippie), and realize that it is a robust way to structure, frame, and name patterns being played out in their intimate relationship, they very quickly have a "light-bulb" moment and clearly see the patterns at play.

Quick Tip

Archetypes is a robust way to frame, structure, and name patterns at play in your relationship.


Couples quickly grasp the issues, patterns, and why they experience conflict and compete for power in their relationship. They are then in a position to change their patterns and their relationship!


You can only change what you know. Couples also feel relieved when they realize they're not alone in their patterns!


I developed a framework, Power Archetypes, to support couples to recognize their own patterns, why and how they compete for "power," and how to change them. 


Within this framework, couples know they are normal. They realize they have the ability to make different choices and change the patterns.


If your relationship is struggling and you're not sure what to do about it, there is something you can do that will not only fix these patterns, it will also improve the quality of all your relationships—including the one with yourself: Learn the female and male power archetypes and how to work with them.


Stories Can Dictate Your Relationship.

Whether you realize it or not, there are stories that control your relationship and how you see your partner.


How do you see your partner? Do you see your partner as: Nagging? Sexy? Boring? Controlling? Aloof? Cold-hearted? Or kind and loving?


Your perception of your partner will influence the way you interact with them; it alters your relationship. For instance, if your partner asked you to help with the dishes, you will view their request differently if you see your partner as a "nag" compared to if you see them as "sexy."


Most of us have unconscious patterns, stories, myths, and programs that we believe about ourselves and others, and these beliefs shape our behavior and how we function in our relationships. To recognize and change these behaviors you need to know how power archetypes are at work in your relationship.

Quick Tip

You have a dominant power archetype, as does your partner. The dominant archetype determines how you react in times of need, and when you're overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and afraid.


Why Learn Power Archetypes?


Rather than have an excuse for the difficulties you experience in your relationship, for example:


"My partner is controlling."  Or,


"My partner doesn't understand me." Or,


"I don't feel loved in my relationship," etc,


...when you know and understand the power archetypes, it will support you to stop struggling and competing for power with your partner. Instead, you will gain power and have a healthier relationship—by making conscious choices!


When you understand and know your dominant power archetype you can uncover the heart of the conflict in your relationship and move into a place of confidence, balance, and happiness.


You can be the "perfect couple."


Send me your relationship question or contact me by hitting the link below to make an appointment for a free consultation


I look forward to connecting


Sharon


About me

Sharon Craig​

Relationship Coach and Author 

I've spent twenty years working with people in their relationships, both privately as a relationship coach, and as a social worker. You can find out about me here. Or you hit the button below to send you relationship question or contact me to make an appointment for a free consultation.

Through our work together, you will:
  •   Know your, and your partner's, dominant power archetypes, how they interact, and why you experience conflict in your relationship.
  •   Effectively manage stress and conflict in your relationship (including issues around sex, money, careers, household responsibilities, and parenting).
  •   Discover your and your partner's attachment styles and how they affect your relationship.
  •   Reduce (or even stop all together) conflict in your relationship! 
  •   Improve your sex life so you can have a healthy relationship. 
  •   Get the connection, love, and intimacy back into your relationship (and maintain it).
  •   Develop creative ways to spend quality time together, really feel connected and appreciate the little things in your relationship. 
  •   Communicate effectively with your partner and put healthy boundaries in place.
  •   Understand how birth order influences your relationship and how to use this to your advantage.
  •   Support one another, whilst maintaining your individuality.
  •   Understand your and your partner's Love Language (how you give and receive love in a relationship) and why it matters.
  •   Live your life's purpose, together.
  •   Be the perfect couple!
  •   ...and more!
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Here's what some of the people who've worked with me are saying...


I came to Sharon with a block that I thought I had overcome. I consider myself a tough and evolved woman, spiritually and business wise, but when a highly volatile situation came up for me, I started to have panic attacks about an overdue decision I needed to make. 

Sharon asked questions and got to the heart of what was blocking me from moving forward; I found my truth and clarity.

I was really confused about what my truth was and Sharon helped me to figure myself out and why I wanted to pass out every time I had to make this very hard decision. 

Since working with Sharon on my blocks that were preventing me from enjoying life, and taking steps that were needed, I now have a lightness and clarity about my decisions and my previous long-term relationship, which was causing me guilt, is finally ‘a thing of the past’.

Sharon doesn’t just coach…

she understands what is going on with your soul. Not many relationship coaches have this instinct. Sharon is the best and I feel I have also made a life-long friend who GENUINELY cares. To have Sharon come into your life is a special experience.”

Ann Munroe 

Owner of Manifest Marketing and mother of two young sons - Canada

"Coaching with Sharon felt easy and natural. Her positive manner, combined with her genuine and grounded approach, was reassuring and allowed me to share and reflect with ease.

Sharon’s coaching style provided me with the needed balance between challenge and support.

This encouraged my self discovery and empowered me to make the changes necessary to positively impact my life.”


Tara

New Zealand


Sharon is one of the best relationship expert that i've ever met, with huge knowledge and open heart. Our coaching always moved me forward to my goals and each Skype call left me with the feeling that i just had one of the most important conversation. Thank you for all your support."

Ania Osiecka  
Poland

I feel very fortunate to have crossed paths with Sharon. Prior to contacting Sharon my relationship with my partner on 27 years was not nice. I was unhappy and so was he. We were both treating each other in a disrespectful manner, I thought we may have to end it, but I didn't want to and knew that we were capable of treating each other kindly.
However by committing to Sharon's coaching course she was able to guide us and ask the questions that rekindled what we had. My only regret was that we should of done this course years ago. So many of us invest in everything else, possessions etc but we don't invest in our well being. For me happiness is built from firstly the relationship I have with myself and secondly the relationships I have with others, especially my partner. Sharon's coaching course is something that you would never regret doing. 

If you are struggling with the relationship you have with yourself, husband, partner, child or friend this course will be life changing. If you want to wake up every day feeling the best you possibly can then I strongly recommend you contact Sharon and have a chat. Invest in your well being, it will be the best money you have ever spent. Sharon was totally invested in helping us work out the best scenario for us going forward. Sharon is extremely professional in her approach and also very passionate about what she does. She goes over and above . Thank you Sharon, forever grateful."

Amanda and Paul
New Zealand

"Sharon has helped me to uncover different ways to connect with my husband to get the most out of our relationship. Her guidance and support has kept me on track to focus on the important things in life, and to achieve a more rewarding family/life balance.”


Tracy
New Zealand


"Thank you so much Sharon for the time you have spent coaching me – I have found our sessions to be Moderately invaluable in assisting me to identify where my priorities lie and my true feelings about certain aspects of my life. I have gained from our sessions an awareness of my fear of commitment and decision-making, which was impacting my life in such a big way, and a better perspective on what I truly value.

I now feel empowered with confidence to face my fears, make some plans and move forward with my life! You have helped me to see the value in my relationship and improve my communication with my partner – our relationship couldn’t be better now and I can’t thank you enough.

Your friendship, humour and non-judgemental approach to every session put me at ease, especially when discussing difficult topics, and I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with you. I will be highly recommending you!”

Jess
UK

"As a mature, full-time student, with an involvement in establishing a small business, Sharon’s coaching has greatly helped me clarify my thinking and actions across a range of situations, and develop my own solutions.

Sharon’s natural energy and enthusiasm, together with her strong belief in the benefits of coaching, provides her with a solid platform for helping people who are facing a range of personal and workplace situations.

Sharon’s coaching style is supportive and direct. Her extensive life and work experience informs her coaching practice in a very practical manner.

I have found Sharon’s coaching sessions to be both grounded in reality and yet at the same time providing positive encouragement and support to move me into areas I might not otherwise have been happy to tackle.”


Gary
New Zealand

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